Dating after a long term marriage
So while infidelity is certainly the precipitating factor in some marriages failing, it's not the reason in most cases.
Why do so many long-married couples decide to split?
Sometimes, the couple's marriage can withstand the infidelity; other times, the breach of trust is too deep, and a split or divorce ensues.And when you do get into a relationship after divorce, even if the guy is faithful to you and is madly in love with you, you may not believe anything he says.This can happen because in the back of your mind, you'll have this ongoing chorus playing: "All men are just like my ex-husband. All men fall out of love and break up with you." It plays like a country song accompanied by an out-of-tune guitar.Here are three post-divorce dating dangers and how you can avoid them:1. Trusting a new man once you've been hurt by your ex-husband is difficult.Yet, if you don't get rid of this distrust toward men it will destroy your chance of finding someone new.